She is a bit over 30 years old, making her life in a foreign country, having a normal, decent job in the management area, living alone in a small apartment, paying the bills alone, traveling in different countries at least twice per year, not married, single, attending parties with friends or even alone. Aaa, and she is from Romania. Don’t forget this special indication when you will answer me at the following questions: “What people think about her? What are the chances for them to say that she has an old rich sponsor?” Luckily, she doesn’t give a shit about those opinions.
I’ve never really cared about social pressure. That kind of social pressure…I mean from people that do not have importance for me. But, today, while I was putting the clothes on the dryer, my mother yelled at me:
-Not like that!!! You don’t know to do anything in a home. How you’ll raise a child?
My mother is the most efficient eagle I’ve ever seen. Her eyes do not miss a thing. And she does not trick me with her glasses. Literally, she is a witch.
-Mom, you don’t like anything. If you’ll have a son-in-law, he will kill you one day cause you’ll be the worst mother-in-law ever and I will not even blame him!
-Well, I don’t have a son-in-law and you’ll never know to raise a child.
-Of course not! At her age, only the Devil will marry her! my mother’s husband said from the living room.
Well, I do not mind marrying the Devil as long as I’ll be happy. I even imagine myself living with him in his fire castle, wearing porn clothes and practicing BDSM together. Actually, I can bet we would be a very happy couple. And , for sure, he’ll not care about traditional cliques like ” You are too old for getting marry”, “How many partners you had before”, “You don’ know to raise a child”, “You don’t know to cook”….etc….I’m sure you know them better than me.
Who the fuck said there is a deadline in doing all this things?!?!? It’s only the traditional concept saying that a woman HAS to be professionally and personally fulfilled until her 30 s. If you pass that term, you failed in your life, you are a disappointment for your family and for the society . Under this pressure, many women at this age run in the street, pick the first passer, marry him, make him a baby and, most probably, destroy their next 30-40 or even 70 years of their life.
So, don’t blame me if I prefer to marry the Devil. It would be fun, actually.
Is not my fault that my planets didn’t lined up yet and that THE ONE didn’t come in my way yet. Or that I’m too selfish to share my food with a snotty child. Or that I’m thinking only about how to travel, how to dance, how to have fun, how to spoil myself.
Don’t misunderstand me. I don’t mind changing the status of my toilet seat. And if you don’t understand what I mean, I’ll tell you a short story: it was the MORNING AFTER, we had a long crazy night, and in the morning I used the bathroom after him. I couldn’t stop noticing that the toilet seat was up. So, I smiled and I told him : “Worm (I use code name cause I like privacy), I can understand I have a man in my home even if I don’t see you”. So, as long as the person who change my toilet seat status is who I want, I don’t mind it at all.
Many women stay in relationships where they are both the woman and the man and their emasculate dick’s owner is just passing by from time to time. Sometimes, you meet some princes that make you feel is better to marry their horses than themselves.
And, since I like horses, but I don’t wanna marry one, I’ll prefer being alone. And, God knows, this has many advantages:
- you can flirt with whoever you want;
- you can wear exactly what you want: transparent t-shirt, short skirt, boobs out, you can even walk naked;
- you can return home whenever you want and with whoever you want;
- you can stay with unshaven legs;
- you can be noisy in the toilet, cause yes, beautiful girls, they also take a shit;
- you can drink your ass with your friends;
- you can dance sensual with whoever you like…
…..and there are soo many others unorthodox advantages . And you can happily benefit of all of them cause you are a shining fuckable badass woman who doesn’t care about traditional cliques and who knows who and what she wants in her life, without making regrettable compromises. Live how YOU want, not how people say!
Danywashere 